Dating German women

  • Is it normal that women in Germany get upset if a (foreign) male pays for dinner, movies and stuff like that? This has happened to me a couple of time, one girl even tried to explain me that she doesn't go for that "macho-attitude". Any advice? If they want to pay for their bills - fine with me - but it just seems so weird

    05 Aug 2005, 03:44 Anonymous
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    azucarhavana62 09 Apr 2009, 08:14 - Report
  • I need a german woman for marraige

    Dear Deloved.

    How are you? Please i am contacting you for serious relationship, i need a serious woman for build trust marriage. Germany or Uk or holland or any country., Can you be serious with me for marriage relation? Note for playing and not for joking. Please can you prove it? And i will be glad.
    Thanks.

    Mr Tonny african but playing football at asia country. Now i live in asia country.

    Thanks God bless you. email me, [email removed]

    tonny 13 Apr 2009, 06:22 - Report
  • Married to German Woman

    what a lot of bollocks some of you write and probably even believe!! Believe me they are all different, thank goodness. Mine is beautiful, straight forward and she know what she does and does not want. As for the bill paying so called "problem", why can it even be considered a problem, I am amazed at the narrow mindedness? I am glad I´ve got my sexy German wife. [email removed]

    Mike 17 Apr 2009, 03:40 - Report
  • Want to Marry A German Woman

    I am a Pakistani 21 Years old Boy. My name is Ahsan. I am seeking for a German Woman who love me a lot.

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    Muhammad Ahsan Shakeel 25 Apr 2009, 09:33 - Report
  • German Girl Seeker

    Hi I am Ahsan, 21 Year Old Boy from Pakistan. I am looking for German Girl who love me a lot and marry me.

    Interested ladies can contact me:
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    Muhammad Ahsan Shakeel 25 Apr 2009, 09:48 - Report
  • Muhammad, you cunning fox!

    Did you really believe, the following lines weren't written for you too???

    "Any other African, Asian or Latinamerican men who want to date German women???

    They might think, you are coolly calculating, slippery and ruthless.

    Of course, you are not, so please, don't make a fool of yourself!!!"

    Uli 25 Apr 2009, 12:20 - Report
  • Don't be foolish

    i'm from Algeria,i'm just to tell who want german girl,how can she accepte you,she don't know you,she is far of you,and you are and you are...
    but if you want a german girl the last thing you can do it write your message in their language and not write you e-mail or phone number,so the first thing try to learn deutch and i'm sorry if i make you sad or nervous because it's ligiquely

    it's not important to write my name 02 May 2009, 02:22 - Report
  • ha ha ha ha

    I'm agree with you Uli big-smile

    Khira 02 May 2009, 05:33 - Report
  • German Girls???

    They will just leave you without any second chances.

    Silly 11 May 2009, 07:27 - Report
  • Relax Men!

    These girls think you are all opportunist.
    They never stop to think for one minute ou could be a prince. So stop making them feel so special. They are nice though happy

    Silly 11 May 2009, 07:32 - Report
  • ahahah

    ahahah
    ridiculous

    boh 11 May 2009, 10:04 - Report
  • marriage

    i wanna marry a german girl

    lociano 13 May 2009, 09:18 - Report
  • I am looking for a soul mate

    i am attractive, easy going , hard working , jovial , sympathetic ,

    alexwesly@live.com 16 May 2009, 02:10 - Report
  • alex wesly

    ... and you are unpredictable, unstable, unfaithful, narcistic - a loose cannon playing around! blunk

    your inner voice 16 May 2009, 11:39 - Report
  • Honesty is the most important

    I would like to explicitly make it clear that most Africans only look for means to seek greener pastures all in the name of love. For instance, how would a young man say he loved a woman irrespective of her age? Every right thinking woman will suspect there is a motive behind such declaration.
    Europeans and Americans don´t ever want to have anything to do with Africans, why? Because the bad ones have spoiled the good ones. Let´s consider how Africans, especially Nigerian youths have for a along time duped the Americans and Europeans on the internet (Cyber Crime)
    If you would like to be married to a German or an American, then it is best for you to come to either Germany or America and choose for yourself, of course there are several white women who are mainly interested in black men. You can´t just stay on the computer and declare that you want to marry an older German woman, it sounds stupid to read such a story from a young man who still has a long way to go in life.
    I would advise that you wake up to the reality of life and make hay while the sun shines instead of deceiving yourself with the hope of finding an older woman on the internet that would put an end to your worries and struggles.

    Mr Honesty 16 May 2009, 03:53 - Report
  • Honesty is the most important

    I would like to explicitly make it clear that most Africans only look for means to seek greener pastures all in the name of love. For instance, how would a young man say he loved a woman irrespective of her age? Every right thinking woman will suspect there is a motive behind such declaration.
    Europeans and Americans don´t ever want to have anything to do with Africans, why? Because the bad ones have spoiled the good ones. Let´s consider how Africans, especially Nigerian youths have for a along time duped the Americans and Europeans on the internet (Cyber Crime)
    If you would like to be married to a German or an American, then it is best for you to come to either Germany or America and choose for yourself, of course there are several white women who are mainly interested in black men. You can´t just stay on the computer and declare that you want to marry an older German woman, it sounds stupid to read such a story from a young man who still has a long way to go in life.
    I would advise that you wake up to the reality of life and make hay while the sun shines instead of deceiving yourself with the hope of finding an older woman on the internet that would put an end to your worries and struggles.

    Mr Honesty 16 May 2009, 03:54 - Report
  • Its a little different over here

    well i do not necessarily agree that Men all over the world insist on paying so that girls can fall into their charms, in the middle east (a misnomer for Arabia) it is the men's unwritten obligation to pay the bill for ANY girl (mom, sister, friend, sometimes work colleagues…), not only the ones they intend to sleep with, and the idea that this act of chivalry (not macho-ness) is a tool for the male to tap into the Female's fantasies is so absurd! well, at least in this part of the world,
    however, nothing ever upsets the guy than the girl's assumption that he "should" pay for her, it will totally backfire and turn things into the ugly side,

    YOSFA 16 May 2009, 08:40 - Report
  • @ YOSFA

    This question was asked four years ago.

    Meanwhile, in this thread there meet only African, Asian and Latinamerican men without money hoping to be able to date a German woman and get an invitation to Germany. In return they want to offer/have sex. Well, this all sound very promising to German women ... blunk big-smile happy

    Uli 17 May 2009, 12:39 - Report
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    fata 19 May 2009, 11:59 - Report
  • Who doesnt like when the chick pays?????????????

    If you wonder why german chicks act strange when you hit on them, take a look at German guys trying to "pick up" girls. You will never see it of course b/c it doesn't happen. Also - who doesn't like when the girl pays? Around here chances are the german government is somehow picking up the check, so let merkel buy!

    american with a german gal 27 May 2009, 12:07 - Report
  • Are we Africans honest in our day to day activities?

    I am an African, I live in Germany and I am married to a German woman, so I think I stand a better chance to speak on this issue. The truth of the matter is based on the fact that Africans in general are not honest in everything they do. Inter Racial Marriages/Relationships are rampant in Germany, the issue or Racism has been reduced the lowest level, this is not to say Racism has been completely eradicated in Germany. African men have for a long time taken German women for a fool, how many of the African men are sincere about their marriages to German women? To the best of my knowledge, I honestly don´t see anything wrong with German women, they are beautiful and educated. I think we Africans need to inculcate honesty in our day to day activities. The question I would like to ask my fellow Africans is, what is the motive behind marrying a German woman? Is the answer different from getting papers to live in Germany? There is nothing wrong in marrying a white woman as long as it is based on true love and honesty.
    African leaders are corrupt at home, their children are also corrupt abroad, how do you expect to be treated and trusted in a foreign land?
    At this juncture, I implore every African to do as Christ cammands, let us work and act in conformity with God´s injunction. Let us emulate Jesus Christ and always remember the sons and daughters of whom we are by doing the right thing at any point in time.

    Mr Justice 28 May 2009, 03:18 - Report
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    khan 30 May 2009, 09:20 - Report
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    T 06 Jun 2009, 04:25 - Report
  • Opportunist

    I think the guys who are looking for German girls they have two intentions. firstly they want a different girl with different attitude (It is natural we wish for those that we normally dont reach), secondly looking for a career in new country. in fact it is hard to live with different culture, means you kill your identity and adopt others (no matter it is good or bad) anyways, I have no real experience of german girl but if I find I will probably go forward (lol) [email removed]

    QA 14 Jun 2009, 01:11 - Report
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    please iwill take care of her am ready to give my love to her iwill do any thing she need as long as she loves me

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    saida 07 Jul 2009, 06:21 - Report
  • I'm a native German

    I'm a German girl myself and i can surely tell you that there are not that many blonds in Germany as people from other countries might think. Actually the number of natural blonds is decreasing constantly. There are just as many blond girls in the USA or in various other countries.
    Nothing sounds more ridiculous than a native english speaker trying to pronounce ANY German word right. It sounds like.. SO gay ;D

    eva 23 Jul 2009, 11:33 - Report
  • german woman who needs an african boyfriend

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    Moody 28 Jul 2009, 02:37 - Report
  • any german girl/woman who likes to be married by an african man

    hi there! my name is Moody. I would like to be in relationship and marriage with a german woman/girl who loves to be with me,a man original from east africa, the country where Serengeti is found! please email me: [email removed]
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    Moody 28 Jul 2009, 02:52 - Report
  • Dating german women

    I have dated a couple a German girls,and I they were both great experiences..they ere both very honest with no mind games.
    They can be the best loyal friends you could ever have.
    Love you german girls, kusses!

    Marti 29 Jul 2009, 11:07 - Report
  • to marry

    i want to marry a german girl

    ram anuj 03 Aug 2009, 03:54 - Report
  • HI

    I would like to marry a German Woman too happy

    Sam From New Zealand 05 Aug 2009, 01:18 - Report
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