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I'm an American male 25 year old pilot expat in Riyadh. I live on a non western compound. How can I meet single western girls? Im afraid of talking to the few that I see in the mall for fear of getting 100 lashes.

Whats a single guy to do?

allen

22 Nov 2008, 02:23

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throw 'em your number?
we're all in the same boat man. saudi boys throw their numbers to girls on a bit of paper LOL. the question is where do you go with your date and not get noticed? you'll only meet females threw private channels. good luck

7168Riyadh

25 Dec 2008, 10:02 - Report

Bluetooth
Don't know how well it will work but...

http://marketplace..../meaw_pm3_saudi_dating/ 

anon4862

01 Feb 2009, 12:35 - Report

:D
i'm from Riyadh

demo

02 Feb 2009, 06:08 - Report

Morning
oh poor thing! i went to Riyadh once it was a nightmare! i was exactly afraid of mutawa guys as i heard they work undercover now,,, i was afraid of getting caught....

on the contrary in Jeddah i go out with Gurls in the malls and have a date with no harm..... i think it's the culture !!! sorry to disappoint ya ,,,but hey gurls r gurls...u can get em when ever u are even in burneo !!

Citizen of the World

07 Feb 2009, 10:53 - Report

wenawen

10 Feb 2009, 06:29 - Report

saudi arabia is Hell!
ur an american, my advice to you dont waste ur life in f***ing saudi go back america & enjoy life..why u n a f***ing society where you ve to be afraid ?
mostly men , people even married men are frustated, just buy a 5 riyal sex cd & masterbate at home! >

Mutewa!

10 Feb 2009, 06:19 - Report

this contry is nice.!!
this si good man. this contry is nice.!!
u get marryed to any girl then love her,
have anythign with her.! b with her.!
give her happiness.!! date with her.!
thats the life here and its is beautiful.!!
but wat to do iam also a young male.! 20 years old.!!for me to get married i have to wait for more than 3 - 5 years from today.!! just dreeeam!!!

shib

13 Feb 2009, 01:31 - Report

oh!
dont be stupid, you wont get 100 lashes for just talking to a women, beside they dont punish western people, u can do whatever you want cuz you're American!

cute

08 Mar 2009, 08:10 - Report

saudi
go away western sex machines

here no girls dating

we r CONSERVATIVE , we love our religion

so back home , our women is more worthy then u sex machines

and don't try to attract otherwise my sword will be attracted to ur neck

yazeed KSA

19 May 2009, 07:42 - Report

SAUDI
NICE QUOTE MAN!!

ISMAIL

24 May 2009, 06:56 - Report

No
Most of the people in KSA are very sexxy.But they have no opportunity to do this for mutawa.
Because only mutawa like to do this.

007

27 May 2009, 11:46 - Report

crazy girl
Im european ,,,and who said girls and guys can not meet?
for 2 years in saudi i men more than 50 guys ....even 14 saudis ,,,,nothing happend ....i dated and did parties ,,,,,just u have to know the right people ..........

im in Riyadth ....message me if u wanna contact me

Good luck

PS oh i forgot to say that i did not meet till know any saudi girls heheh ,,,but im not interested at them

crazy girl

28 May 2009, 08:15 - Report

for crazy girl
hi crazy girl

crazy man

31 May 2009, 04:57 - Report

to crazy man
crazy man ,where do u live in saudi and where r u from?

crazy girl

05 Jun 2009, 01:38 - Report

Crazy Girl
How is Riyadh boring right i used to work there good that i moved to jeddah now.
how can i contact you seems funny and open minded girl

Rami

05 Jun 2009, 02:41 - Report

Rami
Riyadth and boring? for me not ,i have enough fun here ,but as i said before u have to know the right people ....about jeddah i can not say aynting coz i havent been there but many people say its more opened. You wanna contact me? good questions how hehe ...when u r in Riydth just send a message here and we can arange it ....but for ur information im gonna be in saudi till the end of December then no Saudi Arabia anymore

crazy girl

05 Jun 2009, 05:24 - Report

to crazy girl
i am from riyadh

crazy man

05 Jun 2009, 08:12 - Report

To Crazy Girl
you are leaving saudi back home where are you from originally? how old are you?
i think we better leave the rest of question to be asked when we chat
how you find saudi arabia experience i hope you like it.
add me on this email:
will be happy to chat with you.

Regards

Rami

06 Jun 2009, 09:35 - Report

to rami
Hi Rami ,yeah in december im going back ...the project with KSa will be over so im goin home but i want i can continue it but i will not do it ,2 years in Saudi Arabia were for me like 200 years ...Saudi is a interesting country but very hard one for living especially of you are alone,,,,i addected fast here coz i met many euroean freinds and some nice saudi freinds too.

Im orignally from Holland

Crazy girl

06 Jun 2009, 08:33 - Report

To Crazy Girl
happy to know that you enjoy your 200 years in saudi you are hero trust me
well i hope it was good experience for you in my opinion it is all about understanding others culture maybe we can keep in touch in future to share stories and experience.
btw what is the secret behind Crazy Girl???

Rami

07 Jun 2009, 12:51 - Report

Rami
hehe ,for sure im a hero ,,believe me most of the European guys who came to work with me left Saudi in the first 6 months but i will stay till the end i may got a Nobel Prize hehe....

secrest? no i dont have any secrets why do you think i have any

Crazy girl

07 Jun 2009, 11:55 - Report

hi whts up
hi whts up im ehsan in riyadh working as a electrical eng-- wannn meet up
mail me

ehsan

07 Jun 2009, 01:32 - Report

To Crazy Girl
No way you get Nobel prize i deserve it more then you i was born in saudi so i saffer more then you
i will call you the Survival Girl instead of crazy girl how about this like it?
Btw we are using this blog in daily basis i think we should find better way to chat dont you think so
take care..

Rami

07 Jun 2009, 08:48 - Report

Rami
Im going to dedice my Nobel Prize to you ,dont worry ,,hehe sure u suffer more than me ,,,thanks God im European and no need to suffer a lot coz i have many privileges here

heheh yeah a good new name nick i have!

what do u have against this forum? the forums are existing to use them and be updated ,,so me and you do exact that

yes i have an idea how we can find a better way to chat ,,,,,,see u in december in Holland...not bad idea or?

Crazy girl

07 Jun 2009, 09:47 - Report

to Rami
dedice= dedicate ...hehe my poor english

Crazy girl

07 Jun 2009, 09:48 - Report

To Crazy Girl
Rule one keep english out of our intention because i have bad english.
thank you for the Nobel Prize i knew i deserve it heheheh,
Me in Holland no way i want to suffer her more and more i get use to this environment so can not leave it.
he may be we can chat on MSN my account is:
add me if you want
waiting your reply.

Rami

08 Jun 2009, 12:24 - Report

to Rami
ยด...so you dont want to come to Holland ...."If Mohammed will not go to the mountain, the mountain must come to Mohammed"

you want me to add u in msn ,,,why is that? i guess we r enjoying talking here no barriers ..no secrets dont you enjoy it?


by the way if my poor english worry you we can speak in arabic but you will get more worried hehe coz i speak it so bad

Crazy girl

08 Jun 2009, 12:21 - Report

no chance
Look brother i'm an american businessman in Riyadh and its real tough brother!!! I'm good looking guy from NYC and i have no problem getting laid, but you have to constantly be discreet, and fyi...a lot of the married women will come to you for sex as most saudi men are not up to meeting their needs! You have to be extremely careful as do the girls because if you get caught its prob off with your head, and no i'm not talking about the lil one lol!!!! The Saudi women once you get them out of their clothes are extremely sexy, and i mean extremely sexy!!! As far as going to the club or anything as you know that is totally out of the question!! I mean i am a single guy who probably gets laid about 3 to 4 times a week with Saudi girls, but let me tell you it aint easy!!! If a girl bats her eyes at you then you have an in...just remember to slide a biz card or something with your number in it. I mean the girls are very shy at first, but easily trained to do pretty much whatever you want, and you can even talk 2 friends into 3 somes if you are in to that thing! Anyway a bit of advice be careful...always keep about an ounce of weed on you and always carry a U.S. $100 that will generally get you out of trouble!!! good luck brother.

NYC'er in Riyadh still getting Laid!!!!

08 Jun 2009, 08:30 - Report

NYC'er
"...a lot of the married women will come to you for sex as most saudi men are not up to meeting their needs".....

hehe ,,,the Saudi men will be angry at you while they read that ,,,by the way i have many US female friends here, who are looking for Saudis even only for sex ,,,,so the Saudis are good lovers ....

but its normal we are exotic for saudis coz we are foreigners and saudis are exotic for us coz are arabs

someone in Riyadh

09 Jun 2009, 12:17 - Report

in looking for some1 special
Hi,
I'm a Saudi guy from Riyadh with 23 yrz old. I'm handsome, polite, and discrete. I'm really interested in meeting foreigner gals. If u gals r interested, plez add me at my MSN,

Naughty Boy

09 Jun 2009, 02:31 - Report

someone in Riyadh
Ok i get your point, and yeah i guess you are right. Yeah, I want to emphasize just how careful you have to be!!! If you are having sex with a Saudi's wife or girlfriend, and especially if they are of the royal family you have to be cautious!!! My girlfriend who is of Saudi royal line always makes me wear the traditional Saudi attire whenever we go out in public, and we always ride in my black mercedes that is tinted to a tee!!! We usually spend our weekends in Dubai or Bahrain were the laws are much less strict, but you still have to be careful as she is a well known female within Saudi's elite circle. She is actually supposed to be marrying a Saudi prince in january, but it aint happening!! The problem is the older generation and traditionilists are so against foreignors dating their women and marrying them that if it were found out i would probably be either deported or beheaded lol!!! My suggestion to any ex-pats is to work in Riyadh and party in Bahrain and Dubai on the weekends. Its about a 3 to 4 hour drive through the desert to Bahrain, and a fairly inexpensive plane ride to Dubai. Remember though that my girlfriend is of the royal line so she is able to travel a little more freely throughout the country as opposed to an avg Saudi girl. After thinking about your question I would suggest you to hang around the military bases, business hotels, and such if you want to hook up. Also, the U.S. embassy is a very good place to meet and mingle with Western girls. Trust me brother i am taking a huge risk by dating my girl, but as long as we keep it discreet and do not show any public affection we will be fine!! I would not suggest this route, but if you do meet a nice Saudi girl you are sure to have a great time if you can deal with sneaking around like your a kid in high school, but then again if you got caught in high school you might only get grounded while here you may lose your head!!!! I've also heard in severe instances of the mutawa cutting a guys dick off for sleeping with Saudi girls!! These guys are the ones you have to watch for...they are absolute fanatics. I would suggest to always carry a blade with you and if you ever do get into trouble that you know will get you in serious trouble with the saudi authorities is to get to the U.S. embassy as fast as possible...this has saved my ass at least 3 or 4 times!!! Once you are in the embassy you are safe from the mutawa, and i can assure you that you don't want to get on their bad side. I tend to blend into the Saudi scene as i'm of Italian origin and my skin is naturally olive complexion so i can usually pass for Arab when i need to!!

NYC'er still getting laid in Riyadh!!!

09 Jun 2009, 07:03 - Report

NYC'er still getting laid in Riyadh!!!
I've also heard in severe instances of the mutawa cutting a guys dick off for sleeping with Saudi girls!!

You are so funny hehehehehhhhhehehehhehehehhe can not stop laughing some time you guys (white asses)are so funny.

Just drop by

09 Jun 2009, 08:11 - Report

NYC'er
wow .... NYC'er your story will be best seller one day in USA ,,may be you can try to write
"Two Thousand and One Nights "

Aisha

09 Jun 2009, 09:37 - Report

to crazy girl
i'm tommy ,a chinese guy,i wanna know u ,my msn is

tommy

10 Jun 2009, 02:21 - Report

nycer&someoneinRiyadh
Congrats! Your comments were the two most perverted comments so far. I hope you both enjoy comparing your dongs.

SaudiFeminist

12 Jun 2009, 01:03 - Report

SaudiFeminist
Lighten up and get laid!!!!! If you had some dong in your life you might enjoy life and stop living behind those stupid headresses you saudi girls are forced to wear....i mean please!!! I've read that Mohammed had hundreds of sexual partners so lighten up!!! The muslim extremists who run your country are really F'ed up in the head!! I don't think anything i said is perverted?? What kills me is when muslim girls from Saudi, Egypt, Jordan, Kuwait, etc...come to the U.S. its like a sexual revolution!!! Live free party hard, get drunk, get laid and get high!!!! You my dear are what is totally wrong with Saudi....GET LAID!!!!! Not to mention i'm tainting your royal blood!!!! Ha Ha

NYC'ER still getting laid in Riyadh!!!!

12 Jun 2009, 06:15 - Report

SaudiFeminist
perverted? hehe ,,,I'm totaly agree with the NYc'er about the sex revolution!!! Just come and see the "INNOCENCE" of Saudi girls and guys here in Europe ,then we can talk more detailed about perverted


about the dongs.... im a female the one who enjoy to take that saudi's innocence away

someone in Riyadh

12 Jun 2009, 09:29 - Report

LIES
stop telling lies guys

we R arabs , our girls only LET it in marriage

that's what im proud of

we r not pushed , we chose this

so stop telling lies bout sex and such things

here we have no SEX b4 marriage

only those from FAR east origns do IT

arabs don't do that dirty works

so plz speak SENSE

im saudi living in Riyadh , 16 years old n i know how its going here

yazeed

15 Jun 2009, 04:41 - Report

"wow ...the most original comment here " YAZEED
well i have the other story about the no sex before marriage ....

someone in Riyadth

15 Jun 2009, 05:45 - Report

??
U R probably (TRSH B7r)

REAL SAUDIS DON"T DO THIS

yazeed

18 Jun 2009, 02:14 - Report

real saudis
Yazeed, young man why don't you embrace christianity as the muslim religion is built on a pack of lies by the false prophet mohammed.

NYC'er still getting laid by Saudi girls!!!!

18 Jun 2009, 07:01 - Report

??
Well if u admitted that christianity NOW is full of LIES , i don't see Islam this way,

and PLZ don't speak bout Muhammed -peace be upon him- WITHOUT any ideas , u JUST heard that he HAD hundreds of sexual parteners??? well i ASK u 2 review history and CORRECT ur informations

AND PLZ stop saying LIES u r probably an UGLY GAY from America trying 2 feel MAN at once

YAZEED

19 Jun 2009, 12:13 - Report

ax
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cc

20 Jun 2009, 10:34 - Report

Yazeed
well ,,i still can not understand that ,a person should have so many wives ,,,this is not ACCEPTABLE! have u (Arabs)ask urself how a women feel when her husband has other wives?

in Islam the men and women are EQUAL....so the women have also the right to have many men

but this for the arab men is not acceptable ...why? ,,,,we r all equel ....!!!!

Felicitas

21 Jun 2009, 01:43 - Report

Felicitas
Well please do some research on the man to woman ratio you will find that one man equal to 4 woman.
there is a reason why may marry can marry 4 because men die at war and they are in less then women. also as a woman if agree that you want to marry 4 men then whose baby is this and whose baby is this i hope you understand.

The Fable

22 Jun 2009, 08:56 - Report

to riyadh girls

moroccan in riyadh

23 Jun 2009, 10:32 - Report

???
well first of all , why was my reply deleted???

this is UNFAIR place , n i can't continue while my opinion is not accepted and deleted

and may allah bless u fable

yazeed

23 Jun 2009, 08:19 - Report

To crazy girl I am interesting to know u.
please add me to your msn

The Golden Boy

27 Jun 2009, 04:41 - Report

i am from Riyadh too
i face thhis problem when i came from jordan to saudi before 6 years its like diff. ways to do same thing now i am looking for smart cute gril
but not too much crazy like Crazry girl

Eyad... .. you must welcome any time

Eyad

27 Jun 2009, 07:25 - Report

Hi all pitiful Expats
A Moroccan gentleman living in Riyadh , interested in exchanging ideas nd finding new friends just for alleviating homesickness ,my e-mail is :

Heartbroken

02 Jul 2009, 04:09 - Report

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