The Culture

Just wanted to contribute my 2 cents.

You know what - It's harder to make friends in Korea if you're shy + a foreigner, but I think it's the same with other countries too (i.e. the U.S.). Depending on how you're situated in Korea, there are several ways to befriend the "natives." If you're going to study abroad, you can certainly join some clubs, especially their language clubs.

If you're a "foreigner" and being dropped off from the getgo, your options are harder, but still achievable. In general, I've found from my experience that the native Koreans would love to have a "foreigner" friend, but are often too shy to approach them. I personally wouldn't suggest finding your friends at some club, (just like how you wouldn't realistically search for a long-term relationship at a club) for several reasons, but I won't digress on this issue.

As listed above, try the internet (I'm weary of this option though). Or, volunteer at some organization and make friends there. Or, post up adds offering English lessons, and if the student is around your age, you can befriend him/her. (I say around your age because Korea is very age-conscious and treat you based upon that.)

Moreover, depending on what your motives are, you may want to seek different venues. For example, a platonic relationship vs. romantic relationship, etc etc.

Wow, I just noticed that this thread is like a year old...

I personally am ethnically Korean but born + raised in the states, so I may be able to give you some tips. Albeit, not as much as some others who actually lived in Korea for 1+ years, but maybe a different perspective on things.

E 05 May 2008, 09:16 - Report