HELP ....

Hi
I met my partner in 2003 but got together in 2005 we had a long distance relationship I went to live with him in 2007 in the carribean

I became pregnant in October 2007 and came back to the uk march 2008
I have been on benefits ever since because i was pregnant and had a baby
My partner came over a few times to be with me while i was pregnant and to be with me when i had the baby he only needed a visitor visa but on his last visit they refused him entry saying he had been here too much and to go home and apply for a visa

so i went over to visit him for christmas
We were planning to get married in Aug 2009 we have evidence to prove this but we moved the wedding up because we were so upset we were going to be apart and we wanted to show commitment to each other ...

he has been working in the carribean since Jan 2009 and he has his own business he has enough savings to support himself but i only have about 1k in savings...

I have found a Job and i start on April the 6
and i will be on 30k a year enough money to support my self and my family
I have made an appointment to get my benefits cancelled

we are going to apply for my husband to come and live on April the 6 but as a goodwill guesture for coming off benefits
the government pay my rent for the next 5 weeks
until i get my firt pay check or something

I cannot be without my husband anymore i feel like a single parent i need his support and he will help me with the baby when i go back to work
I have a 10 year old daughter from a previous relationship and she just got into a really good secondary school so we plabn to stay here for atleast another 5 years
do you think we have a good chance the benefits thing is worrying me
but i will be on a good salary and my husband has savings and he is a chef and will be able to get a good Job out here we have looked on line and there are plenty of jobs going
i am going to a solicitor next week but i wondered if any one can give me some advice

it is really worying me

Rachel 23 Mar 2009, 05:00 - Report