Social customs in Thailand

Live like a local

Social customs in Thailand

In recent years Thailand has become the destination of choice for expats and backpackers alike. However, not all foreigners in the country fully understand or respect the unique culture of the Thai people. Much of Thai culture is linked to the Buddhist beliefs upheld by 95% of the native people. Here is some guidance on how best to experience the real Thailand.

Way of life

Despite the somewhat chaotic appearance presented to the outside world, the way of life in Thailand is an easy-going one; nothing is taken too seriously. The unwritten philosophy of the Thai people ‘Mai pen rai’ means ‘never mind’, and reflects their ability to stay calm in heated situations. Sudden outward expressions of anger or frustration are rarely seen in Thailand and conflict should always be avoided. While in Thailand try to ingratiate yourself with the local people by embracing a more laid back attitude to life.

Getting to know the locals and interacting with them is the only way to truly understand another culture. In Thailand a great place to start is the ‘Wai’ greeting. The hands pressed together and slightly bowed head may be ubiquitous in Thailand, but performing it correctly is something of an artform. A sign of respect that can mean hello, goodbye, thank you and even sorry, it is much better than simply muttering in your own language.

Gestures

Avoid putting your foot in it when in Thailand. Due to Buddhist beliefs some parts of the body are considered more valuable than others, the head for example is valued highest, and thusly the feet are considered the lowest. The connection that feet have to the ground signifies human suffering to Thai people.

Showing your feet in public is highly offensive, and Thai people wouldn’t dream of touching anything with their feet or pointing with them. The worst thing you could do is have your feet level with someones head, especially if they are of a higher social standing than you.

National Anthem

One of the most unique aspects of day-to-day life in Thailand is the national anthem being played across the country twice a day. It can be heard at 8am and 6pm to coincide with the raising and lowering of the national flag in all Thai towns and cities. It is broadcast on every local and national television and radio station. It can be heard over speakers in train and subway stations, in parks and in public buildings, and even before performances in cinemas. When the national anthem is heard, everyone must stand quietly for the duration and suspend their current activity. It is an expression of the Thai people’s intense national pride, so don’t be alarmed when you first hear it and follow the example of those around you.

Cultural habits

Hygiene is an integral part of life in Thailand, and it is important that visitors to the country respect this. Backpackers who are used to only showering every few days, and washing their clothes less frequently still, should be aware that this is not very respectful in Thailand; the Thai people shower at least twice a day due to the humid climate. Local laundries can be readily found and charge by the kilogram making them an economical way to ensure you stay clean and presentable.

Traveling by taxi in Thailand is also considerably cheaper than in the west, with short journeys costing as little as €1 so they can be a cost effective way of getting about and exploring. Be aware, however, of the difference in flagging a ride on the street. In Thailand you hail a cab by holding your hand horizontal with fingers facing down, having your fingers facing up is rude.

To experience the real Thailand of the people who live there, just try and leave your way of life behind and do as they do. You will gain respect from the locals and will be able to enjoy the experience of a different culture to the fullest.  

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