Jinan-

• Here is the blunt truth:
  You got married to this man when you were very naive and innocent...and he took advantage of you.
  You must leave him- or you will be stuck there after the baby and he will get your son.
  *Can you ask the local imam for a divorce ? since he hasn't followed through on his marraige contract?
  Otherwise- you may want to think about going to his wifes house and telling her he is abusing you and you are pregnant...although this could be very dangerous, only you can decide if you want to spend your life being miserable or take a chance and things may get worse--or he may give you the divorce ...
  Otherwise, maybe there is a female military woman or group that can help.
  (May Allah be on your side and protect you always sister, ameen)

  someone who cares 28 Jan 2009, 03:07 - Report

Sharia law and personal status issues