what should i do? plssss help...

• hi i am filipina married to a kuwaiti man we are expecting a baby boy end of this month. my problem is since the time he married me he has been unfair to me... he doesnt stay with me at night all the week he stays in his first wife's house, in our marriage contract he ask me to tell the judge that we agreed that i will not have the half of his first wife's house and that he will give me my own 3 bedroom flat but until now i am still sharing (living in a room) everytime i open this topics he will start to argue and tell me that i am a threat to his first family that i will slowly destroy his family. he always quote as "you are like an ant slowly,slowly you will take everything from me and destroy my family" this quote really hurts me so bad.... so in return i always tell him if you think i am a threat to your family from now divorse me... i've been asking for my divorse many times but he always says ok tomorrow but he never did... when i asked him the last time he told me he love me and he dont want to loose me.... i am really confused and unhappy coz this isint the life i dreamed of... he cant even tell his parents about me..i know everything about his first wife but she doesnt know anything about me... from the beggining when he married me i wasnt aware he was still married he told me he was divorsed and no kids at all.... just lately i found out that he was still married and had 5 kids....what should i do?

  jinan 19 Jan 2009, 11:45 - Report

Sharia law and personal status issues